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Caring for Your Mental Health While Living With Lupus

  • Nyobie Gordon-Ricks
  • Aug 28
  • 2 min read

Updated: Oct 3

Living with lupus is a journey filled with ups and downs. While much of the focus often falls on physical symptoms—like fatigue, pain, or rashes—mental health is just as important, and sometimes overlooked. The emotional toll of lupus can be heavy, but with the right tools and support, it is possible to find balance and resilience.


Why Mental Health Is Affected


  • The unpredictability of flares can cause ongoing stress and anxiety.

  • Chronic pain and fatigue can drain motivation and lead to depression.

  • Medications, especially steroids, sometimes impact mood and sleep.

  • The stigma of an “invisible illness” can make it hard for others to understand your daily struggles.


Common Challenges


  • Anxiety about your health or the future

  • Depression from constant symptoms

  • Cognitive difficulties, often referred to as “lupus fog,” including memory lapse

  • Grief over lifestyle changes and limitations


What Helps


  • Acknowledge emotions. It’s okay not to be okay. Naming your feelings can lighten their burden.

  • Build connections. Support groups and loved ones can help you feel less isolated.

  • Talk openly with your doctor. They can help you assist with mental health care and adjust treatments.

  • Prioritize rest. Fatigue affects mood; pacing yourself is essential.

  • Practice mindfulness. Gentle yoga, meditation, or journaling can reduce stress.

  • Celebrate progress. Even small victories matter when living with lupus.

  • Seek professional help. Therapy or medication can make a real difference in managing depression and anxiety.


Helpful Resources


💜 For Lupus Support:

🧠 For Mental Health Support:

  • National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): nami.org – Provides education, advocacy, and peer-led groups.

  • Mental Health America: mhanational.org – Offers free online screenings and resources.

  • Crisis Text Line (U.S.): Text HELLO to 741741 for 24/7 support.

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Dial 988 if you or someone you know is in distress.


🌍 If you’re outside the U.S.:


💜Final Words

Lupus may be a part of your life, but it doesn’t define you. Caring for your mental health isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Remember, resilience is built by not avoiding hard days, but by learning how to care for yourself through them.

You deserve support, compassion, and care—for both your body and your mind.


*This is for informational purposes only. For medical advice or diagnosis, consult a professional.

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